I received a message yesterday asking, "When is it a good time to hit on a friend's ex-girlfriend?"
Well it depends on how close your relationship is with your friend. If it's a friend you hardly talk to, then it's fine to talk to your friends ex. BUT you must know your friend is totally over his/her ex, then you can make your move. Just know it's going to be awkward between all three of you.
Now if you and your friend are very close, then I say abroad mission! Is your friendship really worth over some person? If they are worth it, then first you must know they are completely over with each other and I mean completely, what if you start pouring your heart to them and the next day they show up together at your party. But if they are completely over each other, then you can make your move, but take things slow, like really slow! Secondly, talk to your friend if it's okay for you to talk to their ex. Chances are they might get upset, depending on how the relationship ended with their ex, but what do you got to loose by simply asking, they may actually be totally cool with it. But REMEMEBER, your friendship will never be the same, it will always be awkward especially when all three of you are in the same building. Make sure you give a lot of thought about your decision, your relationship might not even work out and at the end you may have lost a good friend.
Overall, do what your heart tells you, if they are worth it, then make the move!
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